Making friends in Taiwan. For the first year that I lived in Taiwan, I didn't have friends outside of work. So on the weekends I usually went to then it was Warner Village to hang out and watch movies or go to Ximen to get a massage. The good kind of massage, not the naughty kind.
The life I lived in Banciao in Taiwan was Home, Work, Home and Sleep. I ate in between those times, but it was usually get home at around 8 or 9 and then in bed by 11 or 12. It literally felt like I was living Groundhogs day. The change came toward the end of my first year in Taiwan where I met a friend and she introduced me to Tina Khoe, the then president of CAPT. Tina and CAPT members saved me from a life of boredom and introduced me into a world of events, friends and connections and eventually meeting my wife.
I actually met my wife's friends through Oriented. Through her friends, my wife and I actually met at a friends house party, but that's a story for another day. Through CAPT and Oriented, i started making connections and making more and more friends. By the end of my second year in Taiwan, I was on the in crowd of the events circuit in Taipei. I would go to wine tastings and trips to different parts of Taiwan that I wouldn't normally go to. It was pretty fun. There are other groups in the Taipei Organization sphere, but in my mind, CAPT and Oriented are the constants in events per month.
I believe that CAPT and Oriented has enough of a difference that you could have friends from different groups. Everyone is different, and you'll have to play the organization field to make friends and keep them. Good Luck!
That's great Howie. It's always good to see other foreigners finding their feet here in Taiwan. You should also come to some taiwanease.com events. We're a pretty friendly bunch!
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